| Location | Hawkinge |
| Age | 5 years |
| Date of Birth | 8/2003 |
| Visitors | 4,450 since 23/01/2008 |
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It was New Years Day, about 12.30pm; Paige was playing in her room with her brother. Lou
(paige's mummy) told Paige to go down stairs and have lunch; I (Phil paige's Daddy)
carried Kailun down the stairs. After about 5 minutes I called Paige, there was no answer, I called
again, there was still no answer.
"Sleep well our little princess" Paige Brown’s coffin, decorated with a painting of a
princess in a fairy-tale landscape, was taken to church in a white hearse drawn by two white horses.
Our beautiful little girl fell asleep on New Year’s Day 2008 after becoming entangled in her
head-band hanging from her hammock where she kept her teddys.
Trust Fund up to keep the spirit of our little girl alive. We have decided the money we would of
spent on Paige on her birthday’s and Christmas will go into the trust fund, so far we have donated
£1000 to the Kent Air Ambulance. We wil now contiune to keep Paige's memory alive by giving
Christmas presents to children in Orphanages, who have nothing, we would love to make them smile
like Paige did at such a special time of the year where all children should be spoilt.
Our Little Princess Loved life, she bought a smile to everyone's face, she would light up the
room and lights up our life. She has so much love to give, always happy with have a big cheeky
smile.
Paige (we would call her pops) was always happy to help anyone, she is our perfect little Princess,
we are so very proud of our little girl.
We all love and miss her so so very much.
" our family chain is broken
and nothing is the same
but, as we all get called
one by one our chain
will link again"
Nite nite pops, love you lots, see you in the morning.
www.thepaigebrowntrustfund.com
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Phil and Lou, Pops mummy and Daddy
Read at Kierans Funeral
Miss Me But Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no tears in a gloom-filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little – But not for long
And not with your head bowed low,
Remember the love that we once shared,
Miss me – But let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone,
It’s all a part of the Master’s plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart
Go to your friends that we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good works,
Miss me – But let me go.
Perhaps if we could see the splendour of the land
To which our loved ones are called from you and me,
We’d understand
Perhaps if we could hear the welcome they receive
From old familiar voices all so dear
We would not grieve.
Perhaps if we could know the reason why they went
We’d smile and wipe away the tears that flow
We’d wait content
Miss me – But let me go
Candles in the Night
Candles flame in darkness,
Flicker, steadily glow,
Bringing light from shadows
And help to soothe me so.
My daughter, like the candles,
Gave my life true light,
I use the candle's beacon
To connect us in the night.
As I light the candles,
My wish and my request
Is that she'll see my signal
And know my love's expressed.
As her light joins my lights,
Our worlds touch and flame.
As I snuff out the candles,
I softly say her name.
The Pit of Grief
The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.
The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.
Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes, I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.
Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.
Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.
My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see, they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance, rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better, to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The 'person' who is emerging from the pit.
Unknown Author
Thinking of you.XXX
The Four Candles
The four candles burned slowly
Their ambiance was so soft you
Could hear them speak.......
The first candle said “I am peace, but these days, no one wants to keep me lit.”
Then peace’s flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
The second candle said “I am Faith, but these days, I am no longer indispensable.”
Then Faith’s flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.
Sadly the third candle spoke “I am Love and I haven’t the strength to stay lit any longer.” “People put me aside and don’t understand my importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them.”
And waiting no longer, Love goes out completely.
Suddenly........
A child enters the room and sees the three candles no longer burning.
The child begins to cry, “Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit until the end.”
Then the fourth candle spoke gently to the little boy, “Don’t be afraid, for I am Hope, and while I still burn, we can re-light the other candles.”
With shining eyes the child took the candle of Hope and lit the other three candles.
Never let the Flame of Hope go out in your life
Happy Birthday Baby Girl! 6 today, can't believe how grown up you are....i hope they're throwing you a great big party up in heaven! we'll be sending some balloons your way today xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello there Paige. What a beautiful little girl.
Briea wanted to call her child Paige when she was older and thats the name of her mummy.
I hope you and Briea play up in heaven, if you like kareoke thats a favourite of Briea's, especially to disney songs.
Lots of love auntie Laurie xxx
Hi Pop, sorry i've been away for so long. I hope you like all your bits up the cemetary. So much has happened this year...you should see your little sister, she looks just like you, has your eyes. Mummy and daddy's wedding was lovely but i bet you already knew that...i'm sure you were with mummy every step down that aisle. Hope you got the balloons that they let go at the reception.Daddy's band played your favourite song and we all sang it for you!
Missing you every single day, can't believe you'll be six in a few weeks. Love and Kisses xxxx
Thinking of you.XXX
Next to you
You cannot see or touch me
But I'm standing next to you.
Your tears will only hurt me,
Your sadness makes me blue.
Be brave and show a smiling face
Let not your grief show through.
I love you from a different place,
Yet I'm standing next to you.
God makes little children
He makes them every day
And though He loves them dearly
He gives them all away.
He gives each to an angel
And says take baby down
To such and such a mother
In such and such a town.
Or such and such a cottage
In such and such a place.
He gives the angel with it
A big soul full of grace.
God does so love those children
It's all that He can do
To let the Angel take them
But he loves the mother's too.
And so he says I'll lend you
This little one of mine
The angel folds it's love
About the special gift divine.
The angel watches over
The child both day and night
So glad to see that lovely soul
All shining in God's light
God makes so many children
And every now and then
He seems to want one specially
We don't know why or when
He whispers to its Angel
Bring the child back to me
The angel sees a lovely sight
That someday we may see
It sees the souls of mothers
And fathers in God's light
Offering him tiny children
Whose souls are shining bright
God does so love those children
Whos souls are never dim
And how he loves those parents
Who give them back to him.
~ Author unknown
Prayer of Thy Healing Angels
That is carried from God by Michael, Thy Archangel
Pour out, Thy Healing Angels,
Thy Heavenly Host upon me,
And upon those that I love,
Let me feel the beam of Thy
Healing Angels upon me,
The light of Your Healing Hands.
I will let Thy Healing begin,
Whatever way God grants it,
Amen.’
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